A wife, mother of 4, including a child winning the fight against cancer, homemaker, runs a business with her husband Ken, and has to continually turn to God each day, sometimes each minute, to get the strength required to make it through the day.
Wednesday, April 25, 2018
Storms and faith
In the world of sailing storms happen. Sometimes there is no choice but to go through the storm, as terrifying as that may be. However the wise sailor will know about a technique called 'heaving to' - an ideal technique for riding out a storm, but there's an art to it in heavy seas. For anyone interested, click here to watch a video about heaving to.
So what about in our lives? Yes, we all experience storms too. They should not be a surprise to us. In James it says,
Consider it wholly joyful, my brethren, whenever you are enveloped in or encounter trials of any sort or fall into various temptations. James 1:2 AMP
Sometimes we can sense a storm is brewing, and if we are wise,
we will prepare for it. Other times they arrive unexpectedly and we have to make choices as to how we respond.
In the Gospel of Mark, chapter 4 we read about a storm that arose unexpectedly for the disciples ...
Suddenly as they were crossing the lake, a ferocious tempest arose, with violent winds and waves that were crashing into the boat until it was all but swamped. Mark 4:37 The Passion Translation
Jesus did not appear to be too perturbed by the storm...
But Jesus was calmly sleeping in the stern, resting on a cushion. Mark 4:38 The Passion Translation
I am supposing that the storm wasn't unexpected for Jesus, as He was the one who told them to get in the boat and go to the other side...
On that same day [when] evening had come, He said to them, Let us go over to the other side [of the lake]. Mark 4:35 AMP
But one of the lessons for us from this story, is that in the storm, Jesus chose to rest. He knew where they were going. Before they started the voyage Jesus told the disciples they were going to the other side of the lake. That plan hadn't changed. They had just encountered a storm along the way.
John Maxwell says this about this scripture,
'When a terrifying storm convinced the disciples that they were about to die, they forgot one important factor: Jesus was in the boat and had told them they were going to the other side of the lake. His word always comes to pass.'
The Maxwell Leadership Bible, page 1232
The Maxwell Leadership Bible, page 1232
How quickly we can forget God's Word when the storm hits. I wonder how differently I would have responded to those words of the neurologist, 'There is a mass in your child's brain' if I had immediately remembered the promise God had given us at Victoria's dedication some three years before...
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life; and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever. Psalm 23:6 NKJV
But the reality is that I had a faith journey to go on, just like the disciples. It was a journey that was long and painful, but through it I have learned that Jesus is always in the boat with me. It has been a journey of learning how to trust God at a deeper level. A maturing journey (that I am very much still on!), just as James says ...
Be assured and understand that the trial and proving of your faith bring out endurance and steadfastness and patience. James 1:3 AMP
So when the unexpected storm comes, we need to constantly, perhaps every minute, remind ourselves that Jesus is in the storm with us. We need to remind ourselves of His promises and not let our thoughts digress from His truth. He will get us to the other side.
If your faith remains strong, even while surrounded by life's difficulties, you will continue to experience the untold blessings of God! True happiness comes as you pass the test with faith, and receive the victorious crown of life promised to every lover of God! James 1:12 The Passion Translation
Wednesday, April 18, 2018
The anchor
As a child I had the blessing of spending many hours sailing on Auckland's Hauraki Gulf.
However not all our sailing days were as idyllic as this image. Some days were stormy, and not only due to the weather! I was a very headstrong teenager who didn't always want to go away on family boating weekends (but that is another story for another day).
Normally after a stormy day we would mostly find shelter in a quiet bay. The anchor would go down and the boat would settle in the stillness.
However not all our sailing days were as idyllic as this image. Some days were stormy, and not only due to the weather! I was a very headstrong teenager who didn't always want to go away on family boating weekends (but that is another story for another day).
Normally after a stormy day we would mostly find shelter in a quiet bay. The anchor would go down and the boat would settle in the stillness.
Until the wind changed - in either direction or strength.
Sometimes the wind would build and the boat start to swing on the anchor, to the left (port), then back to the right (starboard). Most times the anchor would hold firm and we would be safe.
So why am I sharing this boating story?
Well, the
other day I was watching some moored boats on the lake, the wind was
rather strong, creating white caps. I observed the boats doing that swinging action, first to the left
and then back around to the right, bouncing up and down at the same time
as the waves rolled towards them. They were getting buffeted.
Aside from bringing back childhood memories of boating adventures, as I watched these boats I felt that God was saying to me, Wendy, watch how they swing, buffeted by the wind, but the anchor stays firm.
Aside from bringing back childhood memories of boating adventures, as I watched these boats I felt that God was saying to me, Wendy, watch how they swing, buffeted by the wind, but the anchor stays firm.
Then I found myself singing the words of the Hillsong's Anchor,
I have this hope
As an anchor for my soul
Through every storm
I will hold to You ....
... There is hope in the promise of the cross
You gave everything to save the world You love
And this hope is an anchor for my soul
Our God will stand
Unshakeable
You gave everything to save the world You love
And this hope is an anchor for my soul
Our God will stand
Unshakeable
Our God will stand Unshakeable. We will be buffeted. But in Jesus we will always have hope.
This hope we have as an anchor of the soul, both sure and steadfast, and which enters the Presence behind the veil, where the forerunner has entered for us, even Jesus, having become High Priest forever according to the order of Melchizedek. Hebrews 6:19 NKJV
Hope. An anchor for the soul. Circumstances will come. In the midst of them we need to hold on to that hope - even if it seems like a pin-prick of light at the end of a very long tunnel. That light is Jesus. He overcame the darkness.
In Him was Life, and the Life was the Light of men. And the Light shines on in the darkness, for the darkness has never overpowered it [put it out or absorbed it or appropriated it, and is unreceptive to it]. John 1:4-5 AMP
Let's get that truth into our souls -
The Light shines on in the darkness .... for the darkness has never overpowered it ...
never put it out ...
never absorbed it ...
never appropriated it ...
And it is unreceptive to it.
Jesus, the Light of the world, your Light, my Light.
Once more Jesus addressed the crowd. He said, I am the Light of the world. He who follows me will not be walking in the dark, but will have the Light which is Life. John 8:12 AMP
Sometimes that light may seem dim to us as our circumstances try to overshadow it, but always remember Jesus will never be overpowered.
So when that buffeting next comes in your life, or maybe you are being buffeted right now, let's choose to lift our eyes, look to the Light, putting our hope in Jesus.
So when that buffeting next comes in your life, or maybe you are being buffeted right now, let's choose to lift our eyes, look to the Light, putting our hope in Jesus.
We who have run for our very lives to God have every reason to grab the promised hope with both hands and never let go. It's an unbreakable spiritual lifeline, reaching past all appearances right to the very presence of God where Jesus, running on ahead of us, has taken up his permanent post as high priest for us, in the order of Melchizedek. Hebrews 6:18-20 The Message
Tuesday, April 10, 2018
You are not abandoned
As some of you may know I am writing a book about our journey of having a child with a brain tumour. To say it has been an extremely emotional project, is an under-statement. The book is almost finished, so it's time to start thinking about marketing.
Yesterday Ken and I attended a marketing workshop, primarily for our business, however there were many concepts that applied to my book project.
One of the exercises we did at the workshop was to imagine the ideal client for your product or service. With my book, it is not too hard for me to imagine the parents who would read it, as I am one of those parents.
During the exercise, we were asked to think about the unspoken desires and frustrations that your ideal client might have. Some of my notes for that exercise included phrases like...
I just want this all to go away.
I can't believe this is happening to us.
I want to run away and go back to how life used to be.
I am frightened of the future.
You may have had thoughts similar to these during a tough circumstance in your life. Or you may be thinking them right now.
As I reflect on those unspoken thoughts, I am grateful that during that time the spoken thoughts of my Heavenly Father were also running through my mind. Here are some of His thoughts that I clung to during that time.....
For I know the thoughts and plans that I have for you, says the Lord, thoughts and plans for welfare and peace, and not for evil, to give you hope in your final outcome. Jeremiah 29:11 AMP
And the LORD, He is the One who goes before you. He will be with you, He will not leave you nor forsake you; do not fear nor be dismayed. Deuteronomy 31:8 NKJV
And of course, Romans 8:28
And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. Romans 8:28 NKJV
For years I spoke those words of Romans 8:28 in faith, as there was very little in the seen realm that indicated thing were working together for good. It was a choice to believe that God was at work, even in the times when the situation appeared to be getting worse. Sometimes it felt like a foolish choice as the facts did not support the truth of God's word.
But it was the choice to believe that truth that bought hope, and helped me to trust that we had not been abandoned, not our daughter, not our other children, not our marriage, not me.
The Message Bible puts it this way,
Meanwhile, the moment we get tired in the waiting, God's Spirit is right along side helping us along. If we don't know how or what to pray, it doesn't matter. He does our praying in and for us, making prayer out of our wordless sighs, our aching groans. He knows us far better than we know ourselves, knows our pregnant condition, and keeps us present before God. That's why we can be so sure that every detail of our lives of love for God is worked into something good. Romans 8:26-28 The Message
So today, if you are thinking those thoughts like I want this all to go away, I want to run away, let's take a moment to be still and breathe in the hope and love of God. Listen to the words that Moses spoke to all of Israel before they crossed the Jordan river,
Be strong. Take courage. Don't be intimidated. Don't give them a second thought because GOD, your God, is striding ahead of you. He's right there with you. He won't let you down, he won't leave you. Deuteronomy 31:6 The Message Bible
Let's pray,
Heavenly Father, thank you for your truth in our lives. Thank you that your truth brings hope in the really challenging times. Thank you that you have thoughts and plans for each of us that are good. Thank you that you do not abandon us, and when it feels like You have, please remind us that You haven't. You are with us. Thank you for your peace to reign in our hearts every moment of today. In Jesus Name we pray, Amen.
Wednesday, April 4, 2018
Calling on Jesus - The best decision ever
For "whoever calls on the name of the LORD shall be saved." Romans 10:13 NKJV
This morning as I read these words in Romans 10:13 I started thinking about when I was walking past Harry's Cafe de Wheels in Woolloomoolloo, Sydney, and I called on the name of the LORD.
That was the day when I really started to live. In taking that step of faith, over twenty years ago, to believe there was a God who loved me and wanted to have a relationship with me, my life instantly had the meaning that I had been craving for. I felt a peace that I had not felt before. I knew I my heart had found home.
Scripture
reassures us, "No one who trusts God like this - heart and soul - will
ever regret it." It's exactly the same no matter what a person's
religious background may be: the same God for all of us, acting the same
incredibly generous way to everyone who calls out for help. "Everyone
who calls, 'Help, God!' gets help. Romans 10:11-13 The Message
I have not had one regret in asking Jesus to be my Lord and Saviour. There has only been an ever-growing gratefulness for His love and mercy in my life, combined with a peace of knowing that I don't have to strive anymore. I know the truth.
I know there is a God is heaven who speaks to me every day through scripture, through promptings of the Holy Spirit, through people and through His creation.
I know there is a Jesus who understands suffering and pain, and who made a way in His own suffering and pain for me to have that intimate relationship with my Heavenly Father.
I know there is a heaven, and that by the grace of God that's where I am going, one day, for eternity.
I know that today, while I am still here on earth, I am not forsaken, not for a second. And neither are you.
God, your wrap-around presence is our defense.
In your kindness look upon the faces of your anointed ones.
For just one day of intimacy with you is like
a thousand days of joy rolled into one!
I'd rather stand at the threshold in front of the Gate Beautiful,
ready to go in and worship my God,
than to live my life without you
in the most beautiful place of the wicked.
For the Lord God is brighter than the brilliance of a sunrise!
Wrapping himself around me like a shield,
he is so generous with his gifts of grace and glory.
Those who walk along his paths with integrity
will never lack one thing they need, for he provides it all!
O Lord of Heaven's Armies,
what euphoria fills those who forever trust in you!
Psalm 84:9-12 The Passion Translation
Heavenly Father, thank you that your wrap-around presence is our defense. Thank you that you loved us enough to give us a way to come back into right standing with you. Thank you Jesus for making that way. Thank you that there are no regrets in living life your way. Help us to trust you more today, and receive your love and grace more fully so we can be the blessing you've called us to be. In Jesus Name, Amen.
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